We all have moments in our lives where we want to share what is going on. In most cases, it is when we are happy with how life is going is when we want to share the most.
The sad truth is, not everyone needs to know when things in your life is going great..alright…okay…bad.
It is not to say that people will not be happy for you, because some people will. However, there will be some people who will not be happy for you. There will be people who will pray for your downfall.
Don’t blame yourself for those kinds of people, because it is nothing that you have done. People like that are just not happy with themselves. Therefore, they cannot be happy for you.
They best way to resolve that and the negativity that some people bring, is to say less.
Everyone does not need to know about your relationship, your finances, your aspirations in life, or what food you ate for dinner.
We have become accustomed to a world where we share every intimate moment in our lives, and we leave ourselves vulnerable to what people think about us. When in reality, no ones opinions matters but Gods and yours.
I had to learn this lesson the hard way (I am still learning actually), saying less is best. That does not mean that you don’t share your trials and success with others, because what you have been through or going through can help someone else who is going through a similar situation. I am saying BE CAREFUL WHO YOU OPEN UP TO AND SHARE YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS WITH. Not everyone has the best intentions.
Also, the less people know about your personal business, the better off you will be. The less someone can judge you on the past mistakes and the less someone can belittle you into doing something that you don’t want to do.
I want you to know there is a huge difference between people who truly want you to be happy and people who just want to be in your business.
I want you to repeat after me, “LESS IS BEST!”
let me know what think!
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